The Story: "The Emperor Wore No Clothes"
Does anyone remember this childhood story by Hans Christian Andersen? ( Story ) After spending a ton of money for real gold fabric and months of labor, the Emperor was sure he had the finest outfit ever made. He strutted down the street wearing it, and everyone said how fine he looked. But his subjects secretly snickered because he was wearing nothing at all! Over the months, they had all pretended that he was getting real fabric and thread and labor.
What does @Klout "wear"?
I read (at least a year ago) that if you don't have a @Klout score of over 60, you'll be treated badly at the big hotels and restaurants in New York and Las Vegas. So I decided to get my score to 62 before my next trips to those cities.
With great anticipation, I waited for the desk people at The Carlyle to mention - or ask for - my 62 score. They didn't. Further, when I asked if they wanted it, they looked at me like I had two heads! The next try at The Wynn (what a completely fabulous hotel, by the way) produced the same (non-) results!
Deciding that the @Klout was new, I gave it another year. But the effort to stay at 62 became increasingly difficult since I only have about 30 minutes/day for social media. Sadly, I have to work at my day job, too. I began to feel like a hamster on the proverbial treadmill!
Then it got even worse this past Fall. @Klout "demoted" me because they started using a new, "better" "algorhythm." I fell to a 47!! Back to the drawing board: I began to "work" like crazy to get up to...a 52? Holy cow! So I became an addict...tweeting more and more and then checking my daily "score" to see if it had gone higher. It reminds me of when I used to go on diets: I'd get on the scale morning, noon and night hoping that the needle had moved in the right direction. It rarely did!
So gradually I had to stop and ask myself the question: "If I can get a better @Klout rating, what will I get?" Will it help me make more money? More friends? Or help me become happier or smarter?
No, no and no. @Klout may be important for the movie stars. But I'm no movie star. And in the great scheme of things, I am just a 37 in life (or lower because Hillary Clinton is a 37 and she's actually world-class fabulous!).
So I opted out last week and threw away the treadmill. I don't do anything social media-wise any differently...just less of it. And I love the freedom, the lack of (perceived) @klout criticism and implied "Do better!" admonishment.
I'd love to know how others feel about this subject! Please share!
Ellen
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Monday, December 12, 2011
Avoiding the Holiday "blues."
I've finally figured out why I don't particularly like or enjoy the Holidays. It's because of that sinking feeling I get when they're over - that "what do I do next?" panic.
First, there's all the buildup and self-inflicted belief that I should be having fun and enjoy the Christmas season. And then, in the blink of an eye, it's over. And I'm left with bills, extra weight, fatigue and a long winter to get through. All to be repeated next year.
While this sounds pessimistic and dreary, I think it's true for lots of women. Especially when they've had a history of serious depression. Winter is tough. The Holidays make winter a bit tougher.
I've learned to cope to a degree - and maybe you have, too. (Ideas shared really help!). Mostly, I try not to get too caught up in it all. I truly work to keep the calories down - though candy and cookies are my downfall. I work out most days - though lightweight that I am, it's never "heavy." I avoid all movies that hint of tears or unhappy endings (same with books). And I try to smile as much as possible, even if it's just to myself.
But I'm still trying to refine my techniques. So if you have something new, please oh please let me know. Or just let me know that you know what I mean.
First, there's all the buildup and self-inflicted belief that I should be having fun and enjoy the Christmas season. And then, in the blink of an eye, it's over. And I'm left with bills, extra weight, fatigue and a long winter to get through. All to be repeated next year.
While this sounds pessimistic and dreary, I think it's true for lots of women. Especially when they've had a history of serious depression. Winter is tough. The Holidays make winter a bit tougher.
I've learned to cope to a degree - and maybe you have, too. (Ideas shared really help!). Mostly, I try not to get too caught up in it all. I truly work to keep the calories down - though candy and cookies are my downfall. I work out most days - though lightweight that I am, it's never "heavy." I avoid all movies that hint of tears or unhappy endings (same with books). And I try to smile as much as possible, even if it's just to myself.
But I'm still trying to refine my techniques. So if you have something new, please oh please let me know. Or just let me know that you know what I mean.
Monday, December 5, 2011
Christmas Giveaway 20111 Winners
I am happy to announce our six winners - though I'd be happier to send something to each one of you who entered. Thank you so much!! Big #jinglehugs to each one of you ~ xoxo
1st Prize Winner
@lifeonprint
Starbucks Card Winners (5)
@burgmissy
@cloud10277
@VectoringMomma
@pbkup
@letsgolakers

1st Prize Winner
@lifeonprint
Starbucks Card Winners (5)
@burgmissy
@cloud10277
@VectoringMomma
@pbkup
@letsgolakers

Ellen :-)
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Christmas Giveaway
CHRISTMAS GIVEAWAY
$125 Christmas Wrap, Card & Goodie Kit
plus
$10 Starbucks Gift Cards (5)
November 30 thru December 3
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Deck the halls with these great goodies!
FIRST PRIZE: Christmas Wrap, Card & Goodie Kit ~$125+ Value:
Kate Spade designer tree ornament
Crabtree & Evelyn – soaps + sachet pillow
10 various holiday wrapping bags
12 Papyrus® cards/envelopes
3 envelopes of Jolee’s Boutique 3D Holiday sticker decorations
8 packages of Holiday gift wrap + tissue
Magnetic Holiday list pad
Mini-stocking
3 designer gift boxes
12 Bows
2 sets of felt package decorations
Mega-roll (55 yards) turquoise wired ribbon
3D red ribbon from Container Store
1 roll of green ribbon
1 package Mary Englebreit decorated cupcake cups
SECOND PRIZES (5) $10 Starbucks Gift Cards
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DETAILS:
Timing: Now! through Saturday (12/3) night
Who Can Enter: Anyone who is AT LEAST 18 years of age and lives in the USA (50 states)
How to Enter: Tweet this phrase:
GIVEAWAY! $125 Holiday Goodie Kit+ 5 Starbucks $10 GCs via @EllenZElwell: http://bitly.com/sqFHWB
Unlimited Entries:
§ 1 entry = 1 tweet of phrase above to 1 @friend
§ 15 tweets to 15 different friends permitted each day
Please:
§ Tweet just ONE @friend at a time
§ Do not tweet same friend again
Winner Selection Details:
§ Method: random
Good luck everyoneJ
♥
Friday, November 18, 2011
Winners & Happy Thanksgiving!
$125 Holiday Kit & @Workman Mom Calendar (5)
I hate announcing winners - because I would prefer that you all win. So...on the Tuesday after Thanksgiving (the 29th) I will give away ANOTHER $125 Christmas Gift Kit + 5 surprises. So come back here then - please!
Today's winners are:
First: $125 Christmas Kit
- @MsMorev
Second: 5 @Workman Mom Calendars
- @plumsage
- @pizzalogger
- @kwillsmom
- @VectoringMomma
- @natmmom
Have a wonderful Thanksgiving, dear friends. And many TY HUGS for entering!
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